Wednesday, April 05, 2006
let me ask you a question. what is the most definate thing about life? not a job interview, not a distinction score in exams, not a degree. then what is the most definate thing about life? it is actually death. let's face it.who can escape death? none of us can. in fact, even though it is the most and only definate thing in life, many people do not plan for it. death can happen anytime, anywhere. yet many people plan for indefinate things like job interviews and exams and such. what is the point? let's face it. we should actually plan for our death no matter our age. before people start "touching wood", let me explain. we all agreed that in life death is the most definate and perhaps the ONLY definate thing. let's face it. we should all start planning for death isn't it?next thing that i want to adress. about projects. this is meant to flame no one. in projects we all agree that we need co-operation. right? but what exactly is co-operation? it involves LISTENING to others and not ploughing on as if the whole project is owned by you, doing your own part and NOT taking credit for things that we obviously DID NOT do and not taking resposiblity for the things that you OBVIOUSLY have done. and seriously i think the main characteristic of NY is that people obviously DO NOT think before they speak. good example is me. sometimes, i hurt people although i do not know that i did it. the point is we have to be nore sensitive and alert to the surroundings and people around you. also we have to be flexible. if 1 thing go wrong in your plan, please listen to others before makin your desicion on what to do. if ohers have a plan that can somewhat solver your problems. please listen and consider it. we all have to know that everyone is as busy and as stressed as you are. so please do not thing that people who are not tired everyday or do not complain or not stressed and tired. sometimes they just do not want to show it as it will affect the people around them. please consider this point before jumping to the conclusion that others are all free and slacking when you are working hard. this is basically thinking twice.another thing is that when we lead or are forced/encouraged to lead, we really have to know that rank and position DOES NOT mean absolute power and that everyone have to do things your way. sometimes it is better to sallow your pride and listen and consider other's objections and opnions. it is in the human nature to critisise things that you find are wrongly done or not to your liking. true. maybe once in a while, we can break from our complanning and grumbling to try to appreciate the good and nice things that people do for you. maybe you can actually try tothink about all the little actions that people do that warms your heart. the little things that people do that helped when you are in need.maybe you all can consider this point. do you practice what you preach? your words may motivate others. but if you do not follow your words, you are a hypocrite. good example? myself.in fact, if you look deep into any language, you would find that every words spoken is like a risk taken. think twice before you speak because you will be expected to practice what you preach.try to bear that in mind before you speak.*disclaimer*people who think i insulted them or think that this post is directed towards them, please note that i posted this because i was feeling psycho so i typed this out.
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